Selvaraaju’s Pensive

Pain of Roger February 4, 2009

I went to Rod Laver Arena to Watch AO Final. It is one the classic tennis match I ever watched on a big screen with thousands of people around me

cheering N adal. There were only few who supported Roger and I was one among them.

Most of the Roger’s fan left when he lost third set. I stayed back hoping Roger will bounce back.  Even though he lost, I want to hear what’s he gonna

say. He said ” God..this is killing me”. He now knows the pain of failure. Even  I felt it when I didnt get funding for my research.

I cried like Roger and I was broken into pieces.

So, Why it hurts so much when you lose something you love? Why is it?

I did few introspection on this and find it extremely complicated to express such things.  My verdict is…it hurts much..it injects more pain to

your nerves. the world looks upside down. Nobody can ever console you..the only option is to enjoy the pain..WTF?

Enjoying the pain !! Yea..Tell to everybody that you have failed..Accept it first.

Take time to rebuild yourself and determination is the one which takes you to achive higher dreams. Dont blame destiny/GOD for your failure.

Those are the things cowards do !! Rise like a Phoenix.

Losing hope is like burying yourself. Never think about anything other than your dreams.

The moment I felt that I didnt get something which I supposed to get, I was like Roger..a victim of emotional man who aspire to achieve his goal.

Try, Try, Try ….but never cry !!