The Safeway Service Girl September 18, 2010
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When I went to check out counter a month ago ( I moved to new suburb) in Safeway, the service girl asked me ” How are you doing”. I said ” Goo…ood, Thanks”. She didn’t care about my reply. I left wondering to how measure the impact of “that” question on customers.
Because service counter people are rather used to asking every customer the same question every day and they don’t mean it. “They say..they have to ask every customer because it is a polite expression”. I want to make sure that when somebody ask me about my health and life…I want them to mean it… So I decided how to make this service counter girl to ask me “the usual question” but every time she should mean it when she asks me 
Here started my journey to train this Aussie girl. Second time when I see her in checkout counter before she asks me “the usual question” I asked her first and I mean it. Her reply wasn’t great as she said” Not bad”. That reply shocked me and I was thinking that ” ..may be she is too tired and thats why she replied ” not bad” ” … My third time…fourth…fifth time..she replied me ” Not bad”. Next time of my visit,I have decided to ask her how to pronounce her name properly. She replied with smile.. and she prounced it properly.
She looks very happy. I felt happy because I made someone happy that day
Yesterday I happened to see her after long time and exactly told these words ” Hi… <her name> How have you been ” She replied ” great”. And she asked me how am I doing ( She meant it this time )
I told her that life is wonderful …
I felt the happiness inside her… It is a good idea to address the service girl by name and ask her how she is doing?
…. Last week I went to Safeway just to see her whether is around. After buying few things, I went to service counter.
She smiled and asked me the usual question? ” Hi..How you’re going?” .
I replied ” I am good Thanks”…and I continued ” I wrote a blog about you !!”
” You did !!” She replied in no time.
I hope that she will like my blog and become my friend .
Girlfriend Demystified! July 17, 2010
Posted by selvaraaju in Uncategorized.Tags: Facebbok, girlfriend, Indian culture, Indians, kissing, love
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Girlfriend, a necessity for a “single” guy. It is a GOSPEL TRUTH. But why people are more fancied by this “Girlfriend Concept”. All of my aussie friends ask me the same question ” Do you have a girlfriend?” I took a considerable amount of time investigating about what is the necessity for a girlfriend.
I have signboard on my door saying ” Recruiting Girlfriend. All the straight women can apply” Seems Funny but these things never work. It is very complicated to understand what a girl wants ! This complicacy is the main reason why men are attracted to girls. All the “Single” guys life is full of fun like partying,drinking, hanging out with friends. But sometime they feel alone. Their soul needs a companion. It may be due to social pressures. If some his friends in Facebook update their status to engaged or committed, if make the “Single” guy to feel ashamed. Anyway In my opinion Having a Girlfriend is a good idea. It challenges guy’s ability to make a girl laugh, persuade her, comfort her, do the things which she likes !!
The girlfriend has to be compatible with guy. It is still mysterious how compatibility works out ( since I never lived with a girl together ) but sometimes breakup occurs in their temporary relationship.
From the Indian culture point of view, guy’s girlfriend must be his wife. The first love always comes into picture if you are some other girl. The Western people use this expression “She is my ex girlfriend”. It was really astonishing to see a girl is kissed by lot of boyfriends in her life until she finds her “RIGHT GUY”.
Indians considers kiss & sex are reserved only for their partners and most of girls are follow strict culture when it comes to kissing !
My next edition would be on “How Indians try to get a girlfriend and what is funny about it”
Stay updated!
She got the look May 10, 2010
Posted by selvaraaju in Misc.Tags: dream, look, love, wake up
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I think GOD has created her first.
She is the definition for the adjectives like gorgeous, beautiful, etc..
She has got that ravishing look. Her eyes are so clear as pool of water and I stop flooding my imagination here.
I dont want anybody to envy on her
I met here when the sun was fresh and awesome weather magnified her beauty. I was wondering for a second whether I am in heaven or in earth
I quickly realised that she is not only gifted with beautiful face but also intelligent brain. She is infact my dream girl
Love never happens overnight. It happens in a moment and you feel it.Love is such a weird emotion when you experience it. It makes you mad and you are cursed with happiness.
I dont know whether I am gonna propose to her. I felt at that moment that I wanna live with her for ever.
She was very quiet and hmm…..
Then…..I cursed myself. I should have set my alarm a bit late . I hit the snooze button then … he he he
Love..Love..Love November 7, 2008
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Wait for 24 hours to read how I feel love and what is it?
I questioned many people about the love and love marriage. Now I think this is time to express how I feel it and how I rejoice it.
Listen to this wonderful love song..
Love..it is pure and cannot be expressed by words
I know that this post is against by blog caption “Some emotions should be expressed in words”
I had an argument with my friend about love feelings. This is blog is all about that.
Women start loving a guy when that guy is well settled. WTF!? This is the basic thing among women in India. If the guy is well settled (at least with a job, a good house, a car, a good family), women start loving that guy. This is ultimate stupidity according to me. Love happens just like that…
In western countries, love happens irrespective of anything..social status, money, caste, creed and colour of skin. CEO of a company may fall in love with a woman who is removing bins from house!!
Love is the purest feeling from the heart. Love is not a bargain.
It is the feeling from the heart and it is the most romantic part of every human being. It is the pleasure that is felt and expressed with kiss of the lips, touching of the hearts…
Even people who value time try to waste time just to look at their lover eye
People try to believe that they are the most beautiful/handsome person in the world
Every moment is as sweet as honey. Moon is not enough to compare beauty. Being with your lover is like living with an angel in the heaven which is filled with roses and everything you imagine seems to happen.
How should a man/woman feel that they are in love? It is the most mysterious question that no one could ever find an answer to it ( If you know it, please share). I support love marriage. My friends who are in love have always shared their happiest moment in their life with me. They do lot of craziest thing in the world to gain attraction of their love…I could even feel how they could have felt in those moments.
I am waiting for my turn. WTF…Am I crazy? It is weird to write such a line “ I am waiting for my turn” Yea..”Those are words from the movie 27 dresses”. If anybody loves you, do not neglect them.
Ask this question to your lover and please comment his/her reply.
“What makes you fall in love with me?”
Oops..It is obvious that I lag the basic qualification.
I got my own principles in my life. I will never buy a car or house. I am not fond of making money rather I respect human values. I am simple and I don’t expect simplicity from anybody. I won’t care if my relatives/friends brag about their car/house/latest electronic gadgets or anything. If you expect anything in return from anybody, it won’t be a platform of friendship or love ..it is rather a business. Of course humans do expect something from somebody. My expectations are meaningful and justified because of my matured mind. I always got what I expected!!! Because I expect less and most probable things!! I am indeed a true happiest person in the world.
I hope that every women like a happiest man alive in earth..hilarious… Yep
Thats the funniest thing about me…. J
Even though I have received lot of requests from my friends to write about my dream girl/lady love, i hope this post should be sufficient for them. I want to feel those love moments rather than trying to express them using worthless words.
I spend two days roughly to write this post and don’t want to waste time again.
Let’s make this world better by having supporting love marriages.
